Gift guides

• How to ask someone what they want without spoiling the surpriseAsk what someone wants and still keep the surprise. What to say, what to text, when to ask, and what to do when they ignore you.
• The Christmas gift checklist for big familiesA Christmas gift checklist for big families, worked backward from December 25: who to buy for, when to ask, when to ship, when to wrap.
• Gifts for people with allergies or dietary needsHow to find out what someone cannot eat, wear or touch before you buy, plus gift ideas that are safe whatever the allergy or diet.
• Gift ideas for grandkids, by ageGift ideas for grandchildren from babies to teens, with safety notes by age, questions to ask the parents, and a way to keep many grandkids straight.
• Gifts for teens who say "I don't know"Teens often have no answer when asked what they want. Better questions, ways to let them answer alone, and gifts that usually land.
• Gift cards that don't feel last-minuteA gift card can be a good gift when you choose the place on purpose. How to pick one, what to add, and what to write on it.
• The birthday card habit: never miss a friend's birthdayA short habit for remembering birthdays: collect the dates once, get a reminder a week ahead, keep cards and stamps ready, and write one real line.
• Running a family gift exchange or Secret SantaHow to run a family gift exchange or Secret Santa: the rules to set, drawing names fairly, helping people shop, and handling the kids.
• How big families stop doubling up on giftsHow to keep a large family from buying the same gift twice: a shared list, a quick text before you buy, and what to do about repeat givers.
• Gift spreadsheet or gift app: what actually worksA fair look at tracking gifts in a spreadsheet versus a gift app: what each does well, where spreadsheets give out, and how to choose.

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